On a separate note, how would you feel if you had a fitty you wanted to marry but she had been with a few PUAs first who just wanted to bang her. How would that make you feel?

Time off is as good as ended. It's also a bit more difficult when your LTR lives with you...even more difficult when the HB causing some interest (and that's all it is an infatuation atm) lives in the same city. I'm just asking for trouble

lets make on ething abundantly clear, every girl u ever meet has been fucked by LOTS of guys.... they tell lies.

What is the difference between them are pua's & just regular guys?

all guys just wanna bang girls. It seems ur proving that now.

i wouldnt be assed who she fucked unless its a friend, or someone i know... in which case i wouldnt wanna marry her.

i dont class myself as a PUA. Pua's are geek retards who make maps on how to fuck women then at some point realise WTF am i doin.

then just turn normal, live life & are better at getting girls than they wer.

Pua's Call themselves PUA's ..... coz they are retarded

This is true the step process to enlightenment is:


1. Jay
2. Condescending and loss of hair
3. 100 Push-ups a day
4. Alpha Male
5. PUA
6. AFC
7. Wanking
8. Knave

What does it matter if it was your friend? ...playing devil's advocate.
Does it matter if it was one of her friends instead that she still sees in her social group? Girls like to do this for some reason like they think the guy isn;t interested anymore...yeah right.
It's the difference between some guy who just wanted to use her and some guy who wanted to make it work but it didn't.
If you couldn't handle your friend having been with her (because you know he was just boning her and bragging) then how is that different?

my friends are my friends an in that situation wouldnt BRAG!!! otherwise they wouldnt be my friends.

My reason is i dont need my mates hand me downs i can get my own girl

and i dont want to have shared a closeness with a girl i have children with that my mates been inside!

if u cant understand the reason why it makes a diff if its ur mate or stranger! ur an idiot

plus a girl who sleep with 2 mates is likely a slag & should have more respect for herself than be passed around a group like a spliff

It was your friends vs her friends not strangers.
It's understandable you wouldn't want a friend to have been with your girl but what if she has an ex or 2 in her social group - that's about the same in my opinion. It's the same as having to run into that guy she once had anal sex with or a threesome while you're at a party - doesn't make you feel that good.

if she has had sex with a guy in her social group... whos assed, so has everyone.

if a girl has had a 3some with 2 guys and i found out i would drop her.

and a girl who has had anal sex??? pretty much all. anal sex is just sex mate.

it seems to me u have insecurities, bad ones, i am a better man than most, so i have nothin to worry about

2 guys & her vs
1 girl, 1 guy, and her
it's just a threesome mate, same thing.

no its not.

2 girls & 1 guy is 2 girls havin sex with each-other & another guy (lucky guy and there is no story it is what it is)

2 guys is High fives & a stripping of dignity... followed by every person they meet getting a running commentary of the girl intimately in a NEGATIVE as a group discussion. coz people love hearing bad stories about girls.


i dont want a girl who has no regard for her image!

You don't think the guy in the first scenario goes back to his mates and tells them everything about this wild threesome he had with 2 girls?
You don't think the guy who had anal sex with her does the same thing and goes back telling everyone how he got his brown wings lastnight with some dirtbag?