Hi all im new to the area in the middile of nowhere so don''t have much social proof. I've found a few daytime events there is not really any clubbing round here (Holbeach, Lincolnshire) I dont have a car which makes it difficult to get to evening (Most transit stops at 6 on the local routes.) I'm more than happy to go out or further afield if your able to give me a lift. Is there no-one nearby? I'm happy to go with a novice.

The good side is I'm always happy to approach and am fearless in that regard. Ive gone up to woman when I've been able to find them (art festivals mainly.) My biggest problem is that I simply suck at reading body language (I'm likley to waste time on the friend of the girl that IS interested. Or move on when I should be ramping it up.)

The number of times I'd been out clubbing in the past in my old area and ON THE WAY HOME my friend swould comment this girl was into you casey. Arrgh! Could have told me at the time, I Might have asked for her number. I'm also much more effictie when I can talk and pattern or what have you.

I also find it hard to actually meet women here at the minute, I have to actually find them and in a situation conductive to conversation, though I think a wingman in a coffe shop in kings lynn might be effective

Anyway hope I can make a wingman friend for a) Social Proof b) point out the interested women c) tips.