I have the same problem mate. My friends are cool and dress well, like cool music etc. But the majority of them just don't try to pick up girls, probably because of the fear of failure.

And if i say "lets go chat to them or lets go see who those girls are" i always get the "i cant be arsed or "why cant we just have a night out just the boys and not chasing girls." This always limits my opportunity when I'm out.

GoodRebel