I feel this is probably the wrong place to ask and feel kinda bad talking about this on here but anyway.

I've been seeing this girl for a while and I like her a lot she's got lots of great qualities. She's smart, funny, sweet, kind, she doesn't drink which is a plus for me as I have a drinking problem and another drinker isn't gonna help. oh yea and she's hot.

thing is she's american and she goes back to america in august and I could go with her get married and thus keep the feds of my back.

But at the same time I'm thinking I'd be turning down the variety and I'm not gonna sleep with other women once we're married cos I'm a man of my word.

I've got nothing going for me here really. My job sucks I've been living in this crap town since I was born and I'm getting seriously bored (no motivational speaking please).

but If I move there I'll be unemployed and once my saving run out which will be very little I'll be living off her for a while which I hate.

so I don't know what to do.

p.s don't say go with your heart for fuck sake.